Shopping for your first intimacy toy can be exciting and a little overwhelming. With so many materials, shapes, sizes, and features available, it can be hard to know where to start. That’s why at The Adult Emporium, your trusted adult toys store, we guide first-time buyers toward safe, approachable, and satisfying options that build confidence and pleasure. In this article, we’ll explore the most popular toy types newcomers tend to gravitate to, explain what makes them a good fit, and share tips for selecting and using them safely.

Why Choosing the Right First Toy Matters

Your first toy experience can influence your confidence, comfort, and expectations for future exploration. A toy that feels too large, too rigid, or confusing to use may lead to frustration or even injury. On the other hand, a beginner-friendly option helps you learn what you like, what feels good for your body, and removes the pressure of “getting it right.”

At The Adult Emporium, our mission is to demystify the experience by offering educational resources, product recommendations, and discreet support so that first-time buyers feel empowered rather than intimidated. We encourage you to browse our Beginners’ Guide section, where you’ll find tips and guides tailored to newcomers.

Popular Toy Types for First-Time Buyers

1. Silicone Vibrators (Bullet or Wand Style)

Silicone vibrators are a go-to for beginners because they’re soft, non-porous, easy to clean, and gentle on delicate skin. Bullet vibrators offer small, pinpointed stimulation and are typically compact — great for external use. Wand-style silicone vibrators offer stronger vibrations and are ideal for those who prefer a device that can be comfortably rested against their body, rather than one that requires a tight grip.

Beginners often start with a waterproof, low-to-mid vibration setting to experiment comfortably. At The Adult Emporium, our collection of silicone vibrators includes beginner models with intuitive controls that simplify your first experience.

2. Glass or Acrylic Dildos

Glass and acrylic toys are a favorite for those curious about firmness and temperature play. Made from body-safe, non-porous materials, these toys can be warmed or cooled for sensory variety. Because they’re rigid, they offer precise pressure and a different experience from flexible toys.

Glass or acrylic dildos are also easy to clean and very durable. Many first-time buyers pick a moderate size to explore depth or internal sensation without pushing into uncomfortable territory.

3. Suction Cup Toys

Toys with suction cup bases offer hands-free play, making them a favorite among beginners who want to experiment without holding the toy. You can attach them to smooth surfaces—bathroom tiles, glass, or polished floors—and enjoy motion without needing to grip.

These come in silicone, acrylic, or hybrid materials. First-time buyers often prefer models with a moderate base and stable suction, so they don’t slip or lose suction mid-play.

4. Clitoral Stimulators / Suction Devices

Clitoral stimulation is central for many users. Devices designed specifically for this purpose—like air-pulse or suction stimulators—are extremely popular among first-time buyers because they are focused, relatively small, and often have intuitive controls.

They can provide powerful sensations with minimal effort and are typically less intimidating than full-body toys for beginners.

5. Entry-Level Couples’ Toys

Couples’ toys designed for shared use—such as wearable vibrators, remote-entry designs, or dual stimulation models—are gaining popularity among first-time buyers who want to explore intimacy together. These toys can be used during partner play, fostering communication about preferences and allowing both partners to be involved in the experience.

At The Adult Emporium, we offer a curated selection of couples’ toys designed with comfort, usability, and mutual pleasure in mind.

What Makes These Toys Ideal for Beginners

1. Body-safe materials – Toys made from medical-grade silicone, tempered glass, or body-safe acrylic reduce the risk of irritation or damage.
   
2. Simple controls – Straightforward buttons, limited modes, and clear user instructions reduce confusion.
   
3. Moderate sizing – Starting with smaller or mid-size toys helps you understand your preferences without discomfort.
   
4. Waterproof or easy cleaning – Non-porous and waterproof options simplify sanitation and care.
   
5. Versatility – Toys that work for both external and internal use, or offer variable intensities, adapt as your comfort level evolves.
   
   

These criteria help first-time buyers build confidence gradually, without jumping into advanced or potentially overwhelming options.

How to Choose Your First Toy: Tips for Smart Buying

• Start small and flexible: If you're unsure, pick something modest in size and soft in material.
  
• Consider materials: Silicone is forgiving and safe; glass provides firmness; acrylic offers clarity and rigidity.
  
• Check for waterproof rating: This allows for safer use, cleaning, and experimentation with water play.
  
• Opt for manual controls: Avoid toys that require apps or complicated setups until you're comfortable.
  
• Budget wisely: A well-reviewed starter toy is better than an expensive one you don’t feel ready to use.
  
• Use quality lubrication: Water-based lubes pair well with most materials and reduce friction.
  
  

The Adult Emporium offers product filters, user reviews, and beginner guides to help you narrow down choices. Be sure to check our Collections for product comparisons.

Safe Use, Cleaning & Storage Tips

• Clean toys before and after each use with warm water and mild, unscented soap—or use a toy cleaner.
  
• Keep toys in their own storage pouches to prevent contact with dust or other materials.
  
• Rechargeable toys should be fully charged before first use.
  
• Never share toys without proper sanitation or using a barrier (like a condom).
  
• Inspect toys periodically for wear, discoloration, or damage, and replace as needed.
  
  

These practices protect your health, extend toy life, and ensure a safer, more enjoyable experience.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What’s a good beginner size?
A toy with a diameter between 1 to 1.25 inches and a length of 4 to 6 inches is often comfortable for first-timers, but individual comfort differs. Start modest and test what works for your body.

2. How do I know if it’s body-safe?
Look for products labeled medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, or body-safe acrylic. Avoid porous materials like jelly or rubber without safety ratings.

3. Can I use silicone lube with silicone toys?
It’s not recommended — silicone lube can degrade some silicone toys. Use quality water-based lubes for compatibility.

4. Should a first toy be waterproof?
Yes, waterproof toys are easier to clean and can offer enhanced usability (like safe use in the shower or bath). It’s a helpful feature for beginners.

5. How do I choose between vibrating vs non-vibrating?
Vibrating toys add stimulation, which many beginners enjoy. But non-vibrating toys let you understand pure sensations. Many people start with a simple vibrator and expand from there.

Conclusion

Finding the right first toy is about exploring with curiosity, respecting your comfort level, and choosing options that feel safe and manageable. Whether you begin with a silicone bullet vibrator, a glass dildo, or a suction device, The Adult Emporium is here to support your journey with quality products, education, and personalized recommendations.

Visit our Contact page to ask questions or request personalized guidance. Your first toy can open the door to confidence, joy, and deeper self-understanding.